Impressions

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Post Author: Dr. Ellis

I was recently recommended for a Case Manager role with a growing company. This was based off of a maximum 5 hour time frame of working with someone.

While in the Nurse Manager’s role, I recall implementing a program called “Recommend a Friend”. I asked all staff to support one another by acknowledging strengths, hard work, and exceptional attributes of their team members. My plan was to ensure the team member was acknowledged in staff meetings and on an Administrative level. The facility was and remains a family oriented environment and was small enough that this endeavor would not be lost in bureaucracy.

One might think that recommending someone should come easy if indeed that person is deserving. However, recommending someone can put your name and reputation on the line if the individual does not live up to your hype. There is also the pressure of playing out the role for which one has been recommended in an exceptional way.

Then there’s the other part…when the person doing the recommending does not necessarily live up to that very same hype. Hmmm. Seeing the great in others does not necessarily mean one encompasses that same attribute.

5 thoughts on “Impressions”

  1. This was interesting to come across as I was just talking to my mom about recommending friends at work. It’s a tricky subject because there are biases that come into play. A friend is someone you obviously get along with but that doesn’t mean they will be the proper fit within the dynamic of your work environment. It’s also easy to talk highly of a friend but just as easily to overlook their complete scope of practice or what they’re truly capable of. But in the cases recommendations do work out, that’s a major boost for yourself and your team!

    1. Dr. Veronica Ruffin-Ellis, DNP, RN

      Hi Kim,
      A tricky subject indeed. Recommending someone often feels like this person represents you, are like you, and they will “definitely” perform well. The intention is good of course and yet there are those who may not meet the expectations. It’s a chance we take in an effort to encourage and support others.
      Thanks for engaging!
      Dr. Ellis

  2. I have never recommended a friend to a workplace. I also wouldn’t be comfortable recommending most of the people in the work I currently do outside of the nursing world. In my area of work, coaching youth sports requires a lot of patience as you often communicate with parents, kids, leagues and other families come game day. Communication between friends and knowing how they go about their day makes it hard for me to recommend them.

  3. Very delicate subject. I always tell my friends I can’t make work recommendations based on friendship. You may be a great friend but unless I’ve worked with you before, no can do. As mentioned in a previous comment, my reputation is at stake.

    1. Dr. Veronica Ruffin-Ellis, DNP, RN

      Hi Irene,
      Thank you for your honest response. I can certainly relate to this. Quite some time ago, while looking to hire staff, I recall telling a near and dear friend that I could NEVER have her work with my team. From her previous sharing, I had listened to some of her work activity, relations, and ethics…or the lack thereof. Great friendships does not equal great coworkers!

      Thanks for engaging!
      Dr. Ellis

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